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Can $1 Really Change Your Life?

I can't begin to tell you about the changed lives of those joining the On Demand Program at Women's Happiness - it's pretty routine that I get wedding invites and notices about new career directions that our members have taken.

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Men Who Do House Chores Have Less Sex

Dr. Paul, Interesting short article with a cool graph showing the precise amount of housework a guy should do  :D . Supports what we know from your teachings.  

http://blog.sfgate.com/science/2013/01/30/study-husbands-who-do-more-housework-have-less-sex/

Thought you guys might enjoy reading. 

What should women do?

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Immediate Respect from Men and Power at Work

All it is is a simple circle. That's what I started with. After hundreds and hundreds of pages of the psychiatry texts of my training, hardly ever were Personal Boundaries even mentioned. And yet they are the most powerful force (beyond our passions), and one of the only forces that make us HUMAN (as opposed to advanced animals.)

If the passions of the "Reptilian Brain" I always talk about were like an "accelerator pedal on your life, then the Personal Boundary is your "brake pedal."

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Your assignment is to understand better what it means to be controlling toward the world. In essence, we are gaining a better understanding of our personal boundary through this exercise.

Sometimes vague words that describe a certain fear or cause of anxiety or a "hot-button" issue that makes us angry are really code words for holes in our personal boundary.

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How to Handle a Player

One of the frequent questions we receive at WomensHappiness.com goes like this: "Any thoughts on how to deal with a player? I feel really stupid because I thought we were connecting emotionally, and now I just feel really hurt. His other girlfriend showed up while I was with him. I think he revels in the attention he gets from more than one woman. There is no commitment, but I want him to know that I'm the kind of woman who wants to be respected. How do I let him know that?"

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If there's anything that's true about recent films, it's that they are coming closer and closer to explaining the real instincts that are so different between men and women. Maybe it's only those by the director of Wedding Crashers and the writers of The Hangover. Either way, the just-released movie, The Change-up sends a single man and married man into the other's role, with disastrous, but truly enlightening consequences no matter which type of man you may have in your own life.

 

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The "Five Shoes" of Forgiving a Man

We usually hear about the importance of resolving arguments with empathy and perspective for the other person described as "there are two sides to every coin," or "what would it be like if the shoe was on the other foot?" What about thinking about the shoe itself in that metaphor? Today we have a pretty flawless, thorough way to look at the process of forgiving a man who's (maybe) done you wrong, and a way to really amplify your own gains in personal growth in the process. I call it, "The Five Shoes" to forgiving a man.

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