Remember the first car that you bought for, perhaps, $500? The car transported you from place to place, and that was more than enough to make you value the car highly. You likely told friends that it was worth much more than $500 to you. Currency is a measure of value of something to us, irrespective of the the labor, time, energy, or love we put into that which we value.

The material out there for women on men, dating, relationships sometimes seems to always go back to the same common denominator of “men are weird creatures,” or “men aren’t capable of vulnerability or emotional availability,” and in some cases even the downright “men are bad.” I think it’s understandable why.

I went on CNN recently, and I must admit that I held back. The topic was the growth in prenuptial agreements and a new form of insurance called "divorce insurance,” which allows a man (or woman) to take out insurance prior to getting married to cover the huge potential costs of a divorce. They asked me what I think of the trend.