Completely Understand a Man's Intentions

Have you ever been in one of those predicaments where you wanted to connect with a man but it wasn't about tripping over your words? It was more about him just not seeming to understand you. You have all these great features about you, and he just didn't seem to "get it" what a great woman you are?

Or maybe you were in a situation where under work pressure, the pressure of moving, the pressure of money, the pressure of a health problem, and right at the top of the heap of challenges (which you would normally rise to with efficiency and effectiveness) - BAM! - the man in your life seems to not support you, has some drama, or otherwise interferes with you right when you need his teamwork the most?

Maybe it was in the context of just starting to be exclusive, or during marriage, or maybe even a sudden announcement of breakup or divorce that you didn't even see coming.

We have a special tool for you today that is going to change your life - one single tool - that is going to both help you understand your man's sometimes irrational behavior, have him understanding and appreciating you with crystal clarity, and regain power over your life and relationships.

In fact, I have never blatantly talked about it before like this. It draws from both the MindOS Mastery Course and the Complete Feminine Empowerment Course at Women's Happiness. It's none other than THE "Rosetta Stone" for translating between "man language" and "woman language."

How is that useful?

Numerous reasons - it will speed your way to unencumbered career progress (ever hear the word, "albatross" before?), to high-character ATTRACTION that the man will develop for you, and most of all, a solid sense of being a woman who is competent, effective and powerful in relations with men.

Sound good? Let's do it...

The Rosetta Stone

Those of you familiar with the different sections of the brain that we talk about in the Seventh Sense Program on attraction, dating, and relationships know that we view men and women as equal, yet different when it comes to the instincts of masculinity and femininity.

Instincts are not at all "logic-based."  They are irrational, grow out of the human evolutionary process, and yet are very real, valid and useful even though they don't make sense.

Well, to be fair, women's instincts make perfect sense to you, and not to men, and men's instincts make sense to them but drive you crazy with frustration and confusion at times.

Why do men always have to have a problem with your work, your duties, your tastes and preferences at what seems like just the right moment to sink your project, get you further down when you are already down and out, or even to take the glory off the top of a great victory you just had?

Well it happens for a very sensible reason that has to do with those instinctual differences between men and women.

I remember doing a training for men on attraction this past fall in London, where I managed to go on a quick tour of the National Museum. There I first saw the 'Rosetta Stone" - the three-language translation table that first helped archaeologists decipher that most mysterious of languages: Egyptian Heiroglyphics. And what allowed them to do so was not merely two languages written on the same stone (which was enormous compared to the little rock I had always imagined it to be.) No it was that there were THREE samples of different languages that could be cross referenced - heiroglyphics itself, greek, and finally what they had in common in the spoken language of the ancient Egyptians - the "everyday language" common between the two cultures.

That's the key to a Rosetta Stone, and the key to understanding men in "man language" and being understood by them in "woman language."

If could translate between the two "languages" of the sexes using a third, universal one they share, we'd have a very powerful tool for making our way in the world successfully among them.

Here it is:

It's EMOTION.

Whoa. What do I mean by such a vague word?

Well simple everyday words like that are not vague at all if you consider that we define them very precisely in the complete personal growth system called the MindOS Mastery Course.

Emotions are positive or negative energy that BOTH men and women have in common, and as a result, they are literally the "Rosetta Stone" for translating between the two sexes.

We are different in the "Reptilian Brain," that animal brain centered on instincts, the unconscious, and the body-based nonverbal behavior unique to our sex.

But both of us - men and women - are capable of joy, sadness, anger, grief, curiosity, celebration, or any of a host of emotional states.

The key to language is in what the emotions mean, and in what they happen in association with.

I'll give you a couple to consider, and then you are off to the races with your new tool. I would welcome you sharing your personal discoveries on the forums and teleseminars of the Women's Happimess On Demand Program, and with friends you know. Your life will soon change with your new discoveries.

That's one of the best parts of my job. I can give you a tool, and then you can go out into the world and use it to make your OWN discoveries not dependent on my or our systems. Have you ever heard of King Midas? He was the mythological figure who could take objects and by his touch, turn them to GOLD (that is why the Courses and Live Training buttons of our menu above are in gold.)

What good is it to just give you gold? To give you a special deal or a special price on an item, when we could instead give you the ability to BE King Midas, and more - to be your own version of him, with the power to do that alchemy - that chemical change to gold.

Prepare to do that with your conversations with men now.

Shoes Vs Computers, and Jimmie Choo Vs the Apple Store

This is an easy, AHA! experience, and yet one that is not so obvious on the surface.

Have you ever seen one of those benches in the clothing stores where all the men are sitting around playing with their phones, annoyed, as their girlfriends and wives shop all around them?

They are appearing more and more, and it is good to see that some corporations are noticing that men and women do not have the same instincts.

Have you ever gotten in a fight with a man about shopping, money, budgets, or schedules in how you both spend your time? Then you need to pay attention to this simple translation using our Rosetta Stone.

Let's start with the men's and women's instincts we cover in the Complete Feminine Empowerment Program, then work our way up to common emotions between men and women.

Why in the world do men get into technology and electronics so much? And for that matter, why are they so wild about big screen TVs?  

Turns out they are the same as SHOES are emotionally to YOU.

Simply put, shoes are not just shoes to a woman. To your instincts, unwittingly, unconsciously, they are the vessels which carry a big part of your sense of self - which is the BODY. It doesn't mean you lack a mind, or a career.

It means that a great deal of how you FEEL about herself in your identity rests in body image - which explains why so many so often complain about gaining weight, or ask your intimates or friends how you look.

Shoes are extra special in this regard because they amplify your feminine posture, they can be uncomfortable and cause pain or comfort, speed or clunkiness, all the while "carrying" everything else about your physicality (and therefore a share of identity) with either grace, or difficulty.

Wow, that's a lot to think or say, and yet when you open this conversation with a man - go ahead and memorize that sentence before - it does wonders for him to see you as a woman who really understands men. That you GET IT about his thing for computers and technology. It's a man's "love affair with shoes" - guy version.

What does this mean on your side, in your language?

Well, feel the emotions of being "graceful" - aka in man language, efficient, elegant and powerful in the most effective way - having his identity represented and "carried" (which for men is less in the body and more in the career), and what gives him this awesome, healthy self-pride with less "clunkiness" or "pain" or difficulty?

Well it would of course be technology generally, and computers specifically!

Computers speed your way in your career, "carry" your identity in the form of your life, your career items, your files, and make life less clunky or painful as a man, and more efficient, effective and powerful. Not in a logical, intellectual way, but in EMOTION as a man that I am talking about.

In other words, the same EMOTIONS a woman generally feels in walking into a Jimme Choo showroom are the very same EMOTIONS that men feel walking into the Apple Store.

And so when you have to talk to a man about shopping, shoes, budgets, schedules and time spent on clothes, shopping or shoes, just remember to tell him that you totally get him, and feel the EXACT same way that he does about computers, Apple, and his career.

When he worries about your feelings about his career, his computer time spent, or anything related, just tell him that when you are enjoying your day out shopping with friends, that doing so is the exact same thing as his feelings about his computer.

Job Loss Vs Physical Injury

Ever notice that when men get a sports injury - a bruise or scar - they more often than not will go around parading it in front of their friends as a badge of honor?

When a woman is injured, scared or in an accident, it is rightfully, a tragedy, and cause for alarm, concern, support, help and healing.

Why?

Same reason.

It's an instinctual difference between the genders.

Whenever you are in conflict with a man about how you feel about your looks, about your physical health, weight loss or gain, appearance, and what those things mean to you, make the exact EMOTIONAL (not logical) equivalent between those things and the health, safety, welfare and upkeep of his JOB.

Many women approach me for information about what to do when their man loses a job. They want to help him and yet he seems bitter, difficult and mean at that time. He wants to be alone right when according to HER instincts he ought to be asking for help and support.

Wrong.  That's feminine instinct during job loss not masculine instinct.

So you can tell him that stress, pressure, changes and transitions at work, or a new job, loss of a job, hiring, firing, promotion or demotion are EXACTLY the same as those things happening to your BODY.

Call your health concerns your "job" - like his sense of what a job entails - responsibility, devotion, care - or your "identity" - and he will start to understand the Rosetta Stone translation of the woman language.

And when he tells you he doesn't feel good about work, or is pressured by a deadline and so he can't go on the date, or has to skip your big celebration because of it, do not be offended. Just think how celebratory you'd feel if you just got food poisoning. That's how he feels about his work challenge - literally sick to his stomach.

They are EXACTLY the same emotion.

Sexual Positions Vs Kissing and Making Out

Let's turn positive for this last one - and keep in mind that there are dozens of these we cover in the Complete Feminine Empowerment Program, the Heroes of Feminine Empowerment Program and the Seventh Sense Program at the courses page of Women's Happiness at:

http://www.womenshappiness.com/courses

One of the big studies from last decade was about men's and women's sexual fantasies.

By and large the findings revealed that men have mainly VISUAL fantasies of sexual positions, activities, and the woman's body in their mind's eye when they feel sexual.

Women by and large have physical SENSATIONS to experience when they fantasize - how will they feel? Where will they be touched? Some women have even been said to have orgasm just through the process of fantasy.

You've got to remember this in your skills of sexual attraction we cover so heavily in the first third of the Seventh Sense Program.

Why?

Because once again, there is an immense and easy translation to make:

The EMOTIONS of what the actual, visual experience of the sex act means to a man are equal to what the sensory experience of kissing and making out mean to a woman.

In other words, the emotions you feel about foreplay and kissing, before sex itself - that fantasy, the eventual reality, and the emotional release - are exactly what men on average feel about the VISUAL nature of sex and "positions" and "sex-talk" in frank, visual language.

Think about it. It's just a translation.

In other words, what makes having sex "perfect" to you as for example, the end of an incredible date, are exactly what make the visual fantasy and visual language about sex for men to be the perfect topic during a date, even if it doesn't actually HAPPEN anytime soon.

THAT'S flirting in "man language!"

When's the last time you thought about or practiced VISUAL language when discussing sex? Frank talk if not innuendo?

Probably a long, long time ago. Maybe even adolescence.

It will pay off bigtime in your relations with men to think of, obsess about, and become a Master Visual Sexual Communicator.

And from all the loads of tips and techniques in the Seventh Sense Program, you have literally months of skills to learn and practice there.

In the end, I hope you take this master tool for translating language with men, and "go forth."

You'll soon see little subtle things you pick up on in your dates, your boyfriend or husband, and will remember this article.

The equation will be X = Y = THE COMMON EMOTION. In other words, something will give you feelings, but those identical feelings are caused in your man by a completely different thing.

Then all you do is change the word "computer" to "Jimmy Choos" and "job" to "body" etc. The list will be endless in what you discover.

But more importantly, you will be the woman men can only dream of when it comes to your adept, understanding, charming, self-respecting but sexy nature as a master conversationalist.

Enjoy, and see you at the live trainings and courses of Women's Happiness:

http://www.womenshappiness.com/courses