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Female Heroes Advise on Dating and Relationships
So a woman walks into the office one Friday morning and there are security guards there. They just look blankly at her and she knows what it means – she’s been “sacked,” “downsized,” “terminated,” or essentially thrown out on her butt. She doesn’t know why it happened, and what’s worse, she really doesn’t know what to do with the rest of her month let alone the rest of this day. Too bad she hasn’t been using what I call the Hera Empowerment Instinct for years, and on this day of all days, doesn’t pull out what I call the Athena Empowerment Instinct!
More on those later…
So another woman comes home from a hard work day at a job she doesn’t really like all that much. It’s 9pm actually. Her boyfriend isn’t there like he said he’d be, so she calls him.
On the other end she hears shuffling, rubbing, like he’s walking somewhere. It’s muffled. He thought he’d hit the off button but it answered the call instead. She hears a woman’s voice laughing and cooing, and some party music in the background.
She doesn’t hear from him until the next day when he calls and says, “We need to talk.”
She puts down the phone and cries. She knows what it means. She’s been “downsized” from the relationship, and she even knows what the sound of the woman’s voice is who will be replacing her in his life.
Too bad this woman hasn’t cultivated the Hestia Empowerment Instinct for years, and on this day of all days, pulled out the Medusa Empowerment Instinct!
Have you ever noticed that some of the challenges of life seem to make no sense? There seems to be no reasons why some things happen. They are painful, sudden, even shocking and irrational.
In fact that’s the point. Many of the burning questions of your life ARE run by irrational forces. If you already own the Complete Feminine Empowerment Program then you are standing up and shouting, “It’s the reptilian brain doing that!”
And you’re right.
The irrational part of the brain which runs the bulk of our instinctual behavior – in fact it runs all behavior you would call “masculine” or “feminine” – is an irrational beast, the most powerful force of the mind.
And it tends to have its way with us, usually at the precise wrong time for it to rear its ugly head.
Confusion and craziness about the worlds of men, friends and work fill the routines of standup comics and our everyday real lives.
Women ask us all the time, why is my boyfriend treating me this way? Why did I get passed over for a promotion? Why did my friends abandon me? Why did I get picked as the one to get downsized?
“It makes no sense!” they say. It’s “crazy, and I don’t have any idea what in the world just happened.”
It turns out that there IS a way to solve problems even though they are irrational in how they arise.
If you are familiar with our free newsletters or our membership program called the Women’s Happiness Meeting of the Minds at www.womenshappiness.com/forum, you may have heard Dr. Paul talk about femininity as a set of instincts that have evolved over eons in response to the challenges of your environments as women.
As such, femininity itself is a response to the irrational, crazy elements of nature that threaten your welfare, our growth, and in ancient times past, even your very lives.
Femininity and its perfect opposite – masculinity - do not have to be vague concepts anymore, the kind of topic that spiritual gurus lecture on or fluffy self-help books drone on about.
They can in fact, be precise, practical, easy to understand, and most important, a set of ACTIONABLE, EXECUTABLE skills that are no different from learning to drive a car, write a resume, or go on a date with a man.
You might even have checked out the foundational program on femininity called Complete Feminine Empowerment, at:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/complete-feminine-empowerment
In that program, we teach you about the useful, practical concept called the Equation of Femininity. Which amounts to the fact that feeling like a full woman involves effectiveness in your relations with men, as well as your progress on a life’s PURPOSE as a woman.
This purpose must be creative, organic (meaning that it feels natural and in harmony with what you believe your life to be all about), and involves a sense of bonding and sisterhood with other women all striving for the same goals.
We cover the importance of “initiation” into full mature feminine life in that program, and how it is that challenges in life amount to opportunities, not tragedies – that everything difficult that has ever happened to you in the area of romance, friendship or your career was a chance to grow a new specific skill as a woman – what in the CFE program I call “Empowerment Instincts” or “Empowerment Circuits” of femininity, because they explain the workings of the very unconscious, or “reptilian brain” of women (and males).
The CFE is at:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/complete-feminine-empowerment
It was through making that program and working with thousands of women in its use that we determined a second set of valuable lessons could be taught to women – a companion to that program, or one that can stand alone on its own strength.
In the CFE we take the idea that stories of ancient Greek or Roman gods and goddesses last thousands of years for a reason – that they speak to universals about what it is to be a woman (or man) – otherwise they wouldn’t last in the popular mind.
Which is to say that they must be a way of utterly “decoding” what exactly femininity and masculinity ARE: a set of tools and reflexes that serve us in surviving in the world, defeating challenges, engaging in romance successfully, cultivating friendships, growing a family, and making a career that is far more than a career – it has a PURPOSE IN LIFE.
With Heroes of Feminine Empowerment, we go a further step, and find that MODERN myths called celebrities and notables offer you a way of “connecting with the story” as ordinary women with extraordinary goals for yourselves. That unlike the ancient Greek and Roman gods, modern parables such as the stories of Princess Diana, Rosa Parks, Amelia Earhart and five others – women who have both normal everyday lives, yet have had to “use extraordinary feminine powers” for the challenges they faced.
Enter the Heroes of Feminine Empowerment, at:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/heroes
In this program you are going to see eight remarkable stories, eight amazing women, and eight or more female instincts that you cannot do without in everyday life as a woman.
Like Wonder Woman’s “utility belt,” this program will offer you specifc, practical, unique and powerful tools for addressing the everyday problems of being a woman today, but the examples of the real lives of women just like you, literally working with me and my coach-moderators you may already know well through our remarkable Women’s Happiness Meeting of the Minds membership program.
In fact, just by getting this training program, you are entitled to a month of membership ENTIRELY FREE. In it, we will see you on the forums, discussing the material, working together on weekly two-hour phone calls as a group, and doing what nobody else does at this level:
Taking your disc home-training program into very personalized use, with Dr Paul and team helping you with individual challenges, skills and personal growth – not in general terms, but in woman-language, for woman-issues, and toward the end goal of high effectiveness as a mature and feminine woman.
I hope you enjoy this program, and for a brief time, get your hands on the Complete Feminine Empowerment Program that is the perfect companion, at a special pre-launch price for the Heroes of Feminine Empowerment Program alone, or paired up with it…
Learn more here at $100 off, and when you get the Complete Feminine Empowerment Program, get the Heroes of Feminine Empowerment Program FREE for the next two weeks. Get your hands on this NOW:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/heroes
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HI Dr Paul and others, I am recently confused about how to handle a friend of mine who ALWAYS has to be the centre of attention. She is a generous person in many ways and not mean-spirited, but I guess has an underlying anxiety that drives her over-...
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