Step 3 of Sexual Attraction - How to Test a Man

We've done a special three day series for you on the steps of sexual attraction from a strategic standpoint we cover at length in the Seventh Sense Program. This program's robust education you can then take into your nightlife using the practical applications of it in the Virtual Dating Coach.

Today's topic is the last step, and one which many men and women confuse or misinterpret.

Steps One and Two of Attraction

Some men grab women's attention with their height and the wide and varied things they've done with their lives, and any manner of aspects that you might find intriguing or a source of curiosity.

They are mysterious.

You might let them know indirectly - using your body language differently than for other men in the vicinity, trying to label them, whether calling them a nice guy, a player, a charmer, a brainiac. Whatever it was, you were still talking to them and that was very good indeed. Settling into some compelling conversation - mixed with new friends coming in and leaving the conversation - they appreciated you, and felt like doing something a little more for you than teasing, fun chit-chat. You usually got some useful or funny story out of them that would linger for a long, long time.

Then, it would happen...

It was going so great! A little hugging, a little too long looking in each others' eyes...

But you'd step back and flat out disagree with something in the conversation - the discovery of a major difference of opinion in politics, religion, or in something he said that is just your pet peeve.

For you, it is normal and natural. You might not even know consciously that things have shifted. It's just that you really do like him, and it's time to be more serious, and poke and prod about how serious he might potentially be about you.

To him, the experience may be very different - but that's what separates the men from the boys:

A boy will think that you are disagreeing with him just to disagree or be difficult. But a man will have seen this many times before - you do like him, but now you are considering agreeing to a date, for which there has to be more assurance that he's safe, can get along with you, and has the confidence to stand his ground.

Failure of Step Three

He may think that maybe he ought to drop out of the conversation with you, and chat with some other people instead before the attraction completely fizzles - after all, you aren't touching him anymore, and starting to look away.

He wavers, and doesn't decide to do anything, and may even feel an urge to reverse his position just to look agreeable to you.

If he does, part of you is disappointed. After all, you want an enjoyable date, not a lap dog.

Then it gets worse for him if he doesn't understand feminine psychology. Other guys start hovering closer to you, checking you out and preparing to start a conversation with you. They sense his lack of understanding of women, and may have more of a chance with you than he does.

He feels weaker, the energy dropping, and he'll start wondering if he was being rejected by you.   

And the more he starts agreeing with you, the more distant, disinterested, and disappointed you feel.

If only, if only, he knew the material you had been learning in the Seventh Sense Program...

This certainly has never happened to you, right?

Well, it's why it's actually valuable to know the hard science of the matter.

When things are going well, that's just the right time to push into the last step of sexual attraction - testing the man.

The Four Tests That Women Can Do To Know That He's The Right One

It's step three of sexual attraction, and time for the woman to test the man. There are four general types of tests that women throw at men, and they are all covered in detail in the Seventh Sense Program.

In fact, the Virtual Dating Coach practical applications in attraction program walks you through all possible tests, what exactly men do wrong about them, and how to either reject the man based on them, or help him handle them right instead.

When a woman is deemed disagreeable by a man, instead of walking off with his tail between his legs, the man ought to instead listen serenely - not fidget nervously, feel desperate to convince her to like him - and then directly assert his understanding of your psychology: "You love me... Well I like you too."

The man who can be a worthy opponent in an argument and still remain courteous and good-natured can be a real stunner to you.

That's because he had passed one of the four tests that women do to men when they really, really like a guy in that special way.

This one is called "Woman Vs. Man." as a test.

The other three are "Man Vs. Man," "Man Vs. Wild," and "Tests of Character."

The first three reveal everything you need to know about the man's masculinity - is it robust?

Will it last?

Can he protect you?

Will he please you in bed?

Will he remain vital and passionate throughout his life?

Will he stay attracted to you for the long term?

These tests aren't exclusive to first meetings with men. They cycle back again and again deep into a relationship. In fact, ask any man with a longtime girlfriend or wife about it. They will tell you they get tested by their spouse more now than at any other time in the past. These three tests reveal the rise and fall of the couple's connection, reassure the woman she is still wanted and the man that she still cares, and even reignite the relationship's former, vibrant sex life.

Then there's that last category - the biggest one of all: "Tests of Character" - where all the other features of the man are assessed. All the better if done so early on in the dating period. It may save you a lot of pain later on.

This category of testing men is by far the most important and useful for women, because they reveal:

• What kind of friend he will be to you.

• How loyal he will be.

• What kind of teamwork you will share.

• What kind of father he will make.

• How durable the relationship will be in general, and how reliable he will be in specific.
   
• Whether he will ever be a cheater.

• Whether his behavior will ever tempt you to cheat in kind.

The list goes on and on, but Tests of Character reveals nearly every aspect of future years of being together.

And you can know that kind of information about him, and your future together (or lack of it), as early as the first hour of knowing him.

You'd better believe that if the man handled these tests poorly in the first few interactions of their early dating, it did not bode well for the future. 

In many cases it's a climactic test - "the last straw" - that precipitates that final breakup.

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