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Superior Lessons For Women in Sex and the City (and the KWML)…
Maybe if you have a man in your life right now you want to take him out to a particular new movie. So that he can “understand you better.”
He won’t. It’s Sex and the City, and that is a franchise for women and only women…
…unless he also understands the KWML Mastery Program, at:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/kwml
This movie might offer you far more new insights into men and life than it offers you insight to yourself!
There’s a part two out of the Sex and the City franchise, and as you may know, I am a supporter of men learning a lifetime of information from this television series, and now the movies.
As we go into summertime on the next two months of teleseminars for our members of:
I’m going to be there in the Online Coaching Forum Category answering questions on the new Complete Feminine Empowerment Program that’s coming out in another couple weeks, so we will be covering all the tools and tactics that you can harvest for life as a woman, right out of ancient Greek mythology.
It’s at:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/complete-feminine-empowerment
However, as we look at the new Sex and the City movie, you aren’t only going to get a lot of Complete Feminine Empowerment lessons out of the film. A lot of what makes that drama work is the incredible matching of personalities between friends, and between men and women in the drama.
In fact, it explains the lion’s share of everything that goes on between the characters.
KWML MASTERY
KWML is a method of personality assessment, friendship and romantic fitness that you can get free testing on at:
==> www.kwml.com,
And you can learn all that can be learned about immediately reading men for fit to your life, in the KWML Mastery Course, HERE:
==> www.womenshappiness.com/kwml
I’m going to start this off right away by giving you an immediate key to watching the new movie, Sex and the City, and since I suggest that men also watch the entire six seasons of the tv show too. I promise it will give you loads and loads of lessons on meeting, dating, and running relationships with men, AUTOMATICALLY.
Here is the key code to translating everything in that drama:
LOVERS
The main character is Carrie. She is a writer, into fashion more than anyone, and the love of her life is “Mr. Big,” whose real name is John Preston.
Carrie is a Lover in my KWML system and Mr. Big is a Warrior. Carrie’s ex-flame is named Aiden Shaw, and he is ALSO a Lover. (hint: which is why their relationship never worked out.)
QUEENS
Next comes Charlotte, who is now a married homemaker but who used to be single and the director of an art dealership. She is married to Harry Rosenblatt, who is a Magician to her Queen. He’s also a funny, entertaining attorney.
WARRIORS
The often odd-woman out is Miranda Hobbes, an attorney who’s on the uptight side but always saves the skins of her three girlfriends, and she is a Warrior female married now to a Lover male named Steve. He’s a kind, sensitive guy who cries easily and takes a lot of teasing and insults from his wife and other women. (hint: this is not good.)
MAGICIANS
And finally, the Prima Donna of all Prima Donnas is Samantha. She is a publicist with an incredible libido who goes through men like a shark through blood. She is a Magician and her ex-flame is Smith Jerrod, a gentlemanly model who is now a movie star thanks to her. He is a King of course.
There is so much about this movie and the tv show that it originated from that I can’t begin to even list the lessons. We’ll go into the details of the movie in the blog, but for now I will tell you that the KWML Mastery Course offers top to bottom translation of each and every lesson of the drama, into man language, and in a way you will be able to go right out and use the tactics and strategies right away. I give you one such method in this week’s newsletter at:
LESSONS FROM THE FILM
One thing’s for sure – we see the struggle men and women have in relationships highlighted in BOLD by Carrie and Mr. Big’s two-year marriage being on the rocks. Lucky for them they were already matched up on the KWML long ago – Carrie, a Lover and Mr. Big, a Warrior.
He’s the rough, tough but gentlemanly financier and provider, and she, the fashionista with a soft heart, and a great imagination.
When they settle into “too much boring comfort” in the marriage, you can see things unravelling though. This speaks to the fact that the KWML matching between a man and woman is NECESSARY for a lasting, vibrant relationship, but is not at all SUFFICIENT. (As you learn in the Seventh Sense Program, we also need a good match of sexual attraction skills and a match of maturity level and mutual goals, values and beliefs for a relationship to work – not just personality style.)
If you’ve ever been curious though, you can always go to www.kwml.com to get tested.
One fascinating thing to pull out of this is that Carrie, as a Lover, “cheats” on Mr. Big, but to her mind, the way she does so is in KISSING Aiden only. That’s a tender moment, and illustrates how often symbolic Lovers are, because for her, it didn’t matter that they didn’t actually have sex. It’s that she would even do something disloyal to her man at all without talking it out.
This scene also shows how it is that even when there is initial sexual attraction between a couple (and it can occasionally be rekindled), that alone is not enough to MAINTAIN the sexual attraction over time. There needs to be a personality match too going on. And Aiden is a Lover just like Carrie.
Two soft, gentle people, imaginative funny people, for all the goodness they have as individuals, often cannot work out in the long term. After all, how can Carrie ever feel safe with her identical twin of personality? They’re be fearful together if a big challenge ever hit their relationship, and she’d be running back to her Warrior, Mr. Big every time. But by then, as Warriors often do, he’d have a grudge that couldn’t be forgiven.
Luckily, in this drama, and in many episodes before, Mr. Big’s immense maturity level, great boundaries, and wisdom win the day – he sees that a little indiscretion need not ruin their marriage, and he takes the hint that they need to be working on more mutual collaboration and teamwork to maintenance it.
You’ll find it perfectly normal though that he needs a two day a week time out from his wife, so that he can watch tv, do business, and attend to energizing his masculinity in solitude. Which while many out there might not understand or care – in the end such a measure has saved many a relationship by actually understanding not just the woman’s intimate needs, but the man’s inherent, instinctive, biological ones (for aloneness) too.
Carrie can go off writing while Big does his thing once a week, and it only works because of the maturity they share – that a little time off every now and then envigorates a relationship, and a little flirting with the other sex isn’t a bad jolt to the sex life either. Only INTERDEPENDENT couples with great boundaries and maturity can accomplish this necessary balance, harmony, and self-care in the committed partnership.
I hope you enjoy the movie, and Happy Memorial Day!
Dr Paul.
