Men and Relationships

As a man and a movie lover, the "Twilight" films have annoyed me to no end. That is, until I saw a recent article by a woman about why she loves Robert Pattinson and his character, Edward Cullen, so much. It was telling, both about the films but more importantly about our culture. There is a hunger for real courtship in which the man is a true gentleman in the medieval sense. Women of all ages appear to be longing for what both Edward the vampire and Jake the werewolf offer.

QUESTION: My boyfriend and I have been together for two and a half years. We have been through up and down life stages together. He is the King type of personality, and I am a one-half Warrior and one-half Magician. I want to know why we are still together after two and a half years and understand where the relationship is going. Everything is great in my work life. I need to finally know why we're together and whether we are a good match for the future.