Should I report my boyfriend if he is dishonest?

[Paul Dobransky MD]

Definitely not out to shut down discussion either. I mean the membership is a paltry $17 a month.

Plus teleseminars are a massive useful adjunct to the forums.

If there is financial need, simply write marek@womenshappiness.com.

We will not stop women from accessing all this for any reason. There must be a reason you wrote, and a mere $17 ought to not be able to stop it.

We're suggesting Online Coaching as a matter of organization and the ability of other coaches and members to contribute ideas too...

Thanks HeartofaGopi!

[kimbea39]

Thanks for the information.

I'll give it some thought when I have more time to take advantage of it more.

Thanks for all your help.

[janiceh]

I'll give it some thought when I have more time to take advantage of it more.

That's great Kimbea. I would suggest that any time spent on taking advantage of it would be time well spent and a wise investment on your behalf

And while you're thinking about that....perhaps consider this too (and then I'll shut up):

Bottom line: I need to have a back bone when I tell him "no" and let him walk away mad and be firm with my answer, mainly about borrowing my car and money.

No...this is NOT the bottom line! Yes, you need to say no....but it's just a minor point in the overall scheme of things.

Your post is absolutely littered with red flags all over the place, both in terms of his behaviour and your accommodation of it.

You are getting bogged down with details....and losing sight of the bigger picture that makes it all so clear. Maybe you're not ready to see it, don't want to see it. That's what happens when women invest too much time on a man who is not coming up with the goods (in their eyes). So it's now 2 years. It'll be harder when it's 3 and even harder when it's 4. Think about that.

As an interim measure, however, stop accommodating his 'demands' and stop interfering with his life decisions. You will gain FAR more insight to who he is if you do that. So back off, let him get on with his life but don't enable him in ANY way as part of that. 'Cos that's what you're doing, in essence - enabling him - and therefore not helping him one iota nor yourself.

And please DO join up here so that we can discuss it more and help you maximise the benefit out of the programs you have already invested in

[ArtMuse]

kimbea ~

DO this:

If there is financial need, simply write marek@womenshappiness.com.

See you on the other side.

[kimbea39]

Thank you. I will try to grow from all of your recommendations and from the Seventh Sense DVD's & MindOS ebook.