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Who is “Dr. Paul,” and How Can He Help Me Find Out What Few Women Know, But Can NEVER Afford to be Without? How to:
I’m glad to meet you. You’re smart, you’re curious, and you’re a woman worth knowing, loving, and being with. You bring valuable gifts to those who know you – in your personality, your conversation, in where your life is going, and your unique way of seeing the world around you. You deserve and belong with people who are going somewhere with their lives. I’m Dr. Paul, and I'd like to introduce myself… I’m a relatively young guy, but I have dated many women, and been in rich, rewarding relationships in my time. I’m also a board certified, M.D. psychiatrist who’s treated many thousands of women as well, both those with significant illness, and those who are very healthy, solid, gifted, and successful to begin with – but want something more in their lives and relationships. In the work I’ve done for over a decade, I’ve found that many women really do have everything it takes to be far more attractive to men than they realize. They also have what it takes to select the ONE man who is capable of being more than just a crush, a “fling,” a short-term boyfriend, or a “Mr. Right-for-Now.” In other words, a mature, healthy, happy, devoted, committed “soulmate.” They just don’t know it, or how to make this happen – easily, and effectively. And while there are thousands of books and seminars given every year by those with no clinical training in women’s or men’s psychology, the complicated terms and theories of relationship psychology in the academic world don’t make things very simple or inspirational for most of us either. My answer to both of these faults – the lack of real, scientific backing and clinical experience in the self-help world, and the lack of simplicity and inspiration in the academic world – was to combine BOTH and create an easy, new, everyday language system for women that also brings the technical accuracy and scientific validity of the professional psychology world to work for you. For the individual woman working on her personal growth I called this new system, mindOS™: the operating system of the human mind, because it is the only visual system of psychology on the planet. It works just like using your computer screen with point-and-click ease and intuitiveness. I further expanded the system to address anything and everything about your relationships to men, and called that the Seventh Sense Seminar™. There is nothing about men, love, romance, and life that this system does not explain and improve for you. Understanding why men do what they do, how they grow and fit into your life, even as best friends if not romantic partners, is fully covered in the KWML™ material I developed. This works underneath the Seventh Sense Seminars too, alongside the mindOS™. The word, “soulmate,” has been thrown around so loosely for the past few decades that it has kind of cheapened its deep meaning for both men and women. I always have intuitively believed in “soulmates” and at the same time in the more analytic ways of science, have seen them for my very eyes in couples I have known, treated, or watched come together for life. Soulmates. They ARE real, but the reason they seem so elusive to us - or even figments of our imagination – is that modern western culture has utterly lost the very systematic, traditional social process that used to be called COURTSHIP. In the animal kingdom it has always been known that a male and female go through instinctual “rituals” - in movements, gestures etc, that have been called the “mating dance.” Humans are of course no different when it comes to sexual attraction. Yet obviously, we are far more advanced than mere animals. We have a complex psychology and communication ability, an inner mental life and above that – awareness of an IDENTITY in ourselves. This makes things so much more complicated for us than it is for the rest of the animal kingdom. In short, we need something far more than just “moves” or “tips” or “tricks” for finding and keeping a mate – let alone a “soulmate.” We need to understand and use the PSYCHOLOGICAL steps of courtship, not just the physical “moves” of flirting. At least, if we want to find a rich, rewarding, lasting love that is a partnership, a friendship, and lover all in one. This is the Seventh Sense™. Perhaps there is information, guidance and actions you could take based on what I teach you – most of which would cause you to ask yourself, “Why didn’t anyone ever tell me this before?” You might be surprised to find how only a few women are aware of the precise ways the male mind works, and that being without this information is the SOLE source of dating, relationship, and personal problems for women.You cannot afford NOT to know this... Have you ever met what seemed like a fantastic guy, the type who you could just instantly see spending the whole rest of your life with? You got all wrapped up in him quickly. There was such “chemistry” that it just held so much promise. You didn’t spend a lot of time stopping to think because it just “felt so right,” and you “went with it.” The first few dates were blissful, then you eventually found that you wanted to date exclusively. A short while after this happened, he seemed to change a bit. He didn’t do as much of the gentlemanly things he did on the first few dates. He then started to become a little “distant.” Soon after getting “involved,” you found out he suddenly “just wasn’t that into you” anymore. How could he suddenly just disappear just when things seemed to be going so great? It made NO sense. There is a very clear and scientific reason - one that completely and simply explains men’s psychology. The answer? Either you failed to do one or more of the three steps of sexual attraction ALL men need to maintain the hots for you, OR… you did not completely, clearly express your interest and commitment to HIS life’s mission. Do BOTH, and the guy is committed back to you, yes, for LIFE. We are going to get right to the heart of the matter in working together on this in detail. Another one... Have you ever slept with a guy soon after meeting him? It felt in your heart to be “right” at the time, but you knew with your head that you shouldn’t be doing it. You then had all kinds of dreams about what it would be like to be together for the long term, but felt a kind of sense of dread over what would happen next. You knew he wouldn’t call again, and on the rare occasion the guy did, you couldn’t bring yourself to say NO this time either, or felt torn - that even if you DID, you’d regret that too. A no-win situation. It played out just as you knew it would, and while you cherish the memory of that wonderful night – maybe even daydream about it for MONTHS, it left you yearning for “the real thing…” …something that if you get honest, you aren’t totally sure you deserve, can ever find, or would even know where to begin looking. And finally: Have you ever been with a great guy in a longer-term relationship – maybe a serious dating situation for months, or years... BUT… the topic of marriage was starting to always be on your mind, and NEVER on HIS? It was getting to be too much time. You felt uneasy in a way you never did before. You started to wonder if he really wanted you, and whether there was something wrong with you. You felt anxious that maybe you chose to put all your energy, time and loyalty into the wrong guy… And when you tried to bring up the topic of having an exclusive or committed relationship, he avoided the topic like the plague, always having excuses, or somewhere to be, or said, “I love you very much, but can we revisit this later?” Or said, “Don’t you like what we already have?” Or said, “Why should we ruin such a good thing?” ... and then he became more distant from you than ever ... and the relationship ended not too long after that? You were trying to get CLOSER to him, and somehow he kept moving farther AWAY from you. Maybe you went to some books or tapes that try to tell you WHAT to do, but none of these except the system you are now reading about can explain WHY this was happening. You maybe also of course got some support from your friends.They all mean well, and side with YOU over any man. They told you what a great person you are, and how much you have going for you. Yet even though you know that with your HEAD, why did it still FEEL so bad in your HEART? I know why. And that is one of the hundreds of situations I want to prepare you to never have happen again. When your friends tell you what a great person you are, that is fantastic and it makes you feel a bit better. But there is something that so many thousands of women I have known, never figure out unless I stand by their side and look out at something together. It’s this: Whether we are talking about your personal life, your career, or how the men in your life behave, we can talk about problems as if they are “out there” and “should be different.” But that accomplishes nothing REAL to make a positive change in your life. When we instead look to what it is about two things – your CHARACTER, and your FEMININE INSTINCTS as a woman – then by getting acquainted with YOUR inner workings, and starting to DO things differently, UNDERSTAND men and the world around you differently, and to ATTRACT men and circumstances in life to yourself differently, it all changes. EVERYTHING goes your way from then on. The truth is, men do things for seemingly illogical reasons. It doesn’t HAVE to be logical. They are who they are and they do what they do, and you do not have any say-so in the matter. But if you knew exactly WHY they do what they do, then you could take charge of how YOU communicate to them and conduct your relationships, couldn’t you? The way men behave in their masculine instincts has been around for millions of years, and it developed that way for one purpose – to promote the survival of the human race. It isn’t going away, and the sooner you learn that the sooner you will get to happiness in working with and AROUND our little quirks. The same is true for YOU, and the way your feminine instincts guide you. Men don’t naturally speak that language either. But they can LEARN to, and I teach you how to teach THEM, sometimes without them even being aware you are doing this. It is this tender situation of misunderstanding that has caused so much pain in the world of dating, romance, breakups, marriage and divorce. It is an illusion that there was ever a “War Between the Sexes.” There isn’t, wasn’t, and never will be. Men and women need each other, and as I have always said, “Men and women are EQUAL, but DIFFERENT.” Being different does not make us unequal. It just makes us different. You can learn to speak their language, and teach them to speak YOURS. Any personal problem you have ever had, whether in career, with men, or among friends, has a solution. THERE IS A SOLUTION TO EVERY PROBLEM. My systems guarantee that. When you got so caught up in wishing things were different with “that special guy,” or that the breakup or divorce didn’t have to happen, or that your career had been something different from what it is now, or that some of your friendships had not fallen apart along the way…I wish, I wish, I wish…If only, if only, if only… Well what happened, happened, and you can’t change that now. But you CAN change YOU. You can have a whole new life, starting NOW. All you ever needed to do was to learn about three things: 1. The nature of growing high character, and judging it in others. 2. The gifts and powers of your own instinctual femininity. 3. The language of masculine instinct, and how it is here to BENEFIT you, not to cause you pain or confusion. The Secret Way to Finding Only the Right Man, and in a Way That Actually Works for Your Life... Men are actually very easy to understand. For many women they are even easy to attract in general. The PROBLEM is that they often do not DO things that are certain to benefit your life, don’t LISTEN to you or what you are all about. Even if you by luck or heavy labor, GET them to – you often do not have the ONE right man on your hands…the one whose life perfectly fits your own, your personality, your goals, and makes you happy most of the time. I’ve had it happen many, many times that a well-meaning friend has connected me with a “great woman.” Almost across the board, the “great woman” was absolutely not for me. It would have been to my friend, if he was a man, or a best friend if my friend was a woman, but not ME. This has happened to you I’m sure. There is just this great guy that you just have to meet. You do. He’s not so great. Not to you. You didn’t go through any normal kind of COURTSHIP. Your friend “found him” FOR you. Girlfriends can tell you all kinds of great advice on men in general, things they’ve seen work for them for attracting men in general, and beauty tips, strategies for romance, and all the stuff of the women’s magazines. This is such a subtle thing going on. Your friends, and the magazines mean well. They do. But they can’t BE you. No, this is something you are going to have to understand and do, ON YOUR OWN, even while they cheer you on. The fact of the matter is that the cosmetics industry is at least as old as ancient Egypt. It addresses the core driver of the male sexual attraction response: BEAUTY. Yet, just showing up beautiful as you can be does NOTHING to attract the very specific man, with the specific personality and the specific life’s story that was meant for you and only YOU. This is the very problem that the online dating sites have tried, and utterly FAILED, to solve since they first arrived on the scene. It cannot be solved by a dating service, no matter how seemingly technological, no matter how glitzy the advertising, nor how many great “testimonials” they post on their websites. If a million women use a dating service and a hundred of them happen to find a great guy to marry, then tell the tale on the advertisement, it looks good but is misleading as being urged to buy a LOTTO ticket. “You can only WIN , if you PLAY,” they say. I don’t want you to gamble with your life. Dating sites are great as a small tool among many that you need to find the great guy you were meant for. The answer rests in understanding COURTSHIP, something that you and only you can give yourself. It is like being your OWN dating service, designed only for you, by you, and with YOU in mind, not millions of women in general. And so the Seventh Sense Seminar™ is not a “dating service.” It is a training that takes you by the hand and helps you develop your OWN exact needs in a man for life. It is like building your own private, personal dating service, for ONLY you, from scratch. But there is something you need before you start getting yourself into a “courtship” of your own design. Remember when I said that “men and women are equal but different?” Well, the part about being equal here… Both men and women are capable of the tops of their careers, the intellect to solve the world’s problems, the emotional capacity to love and have rich friendships, and to have missions for their lives. A great cause to follow. What causes your success and personal growth? Your character. The philosopher, Epictetus, said, “Character is Destiny.” Freud later requoted this phrase and it has always been true, and is today. It is your CHARACTER that causes all failures and successes, all pains and happiness in your life. And it oerates the same for both men and women. This is why there are not criminal laws for women that are separate form those of men, not credit bureaus for women that are separate from ones for men. These are both simply measurements of character and rewards and public punishments for “bad character.” Back to online dating sites… When you go to those sites, you have no idea what the CHARACTER is of the guys you meet. And what is even more subtle, you may not have any idea what level of character sophistication YOU are now at. None of us knows intuitively what our level of character is. We need someone outside ourselves to teach us about it, because we live every day in our own bodies. So here is why this matters. If you don’t know your own level of character or how to judge it objectively in others, then YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT in a man, and YOU DON’T REALIZE THAT YOU ARE POSSIBLY BLOCKING MEN OF HIGH CHARACTER from entering your life. Why? Because we automatically attract those who are of our SAME LEVEL OF CHARACTER. In other words, if you have been with a “jerk” there is something about YOU that attracted that “jerk.” If you have been with a “great guy,” then there was something about YOU that was “great” at that time of your life. Perhaps you lost that something for awhile, and are trying to get it back in yourself. Or perhaps that “great guy” didn’t “take things to the next level” simply because he didn’t detect something in you that was “next level worthy” to his unique, and admittedly FOREIGN, male mindset. You know, the hardest part of my job is sometimes that I have to tell people things they don’t want to hear. I promise that it’s for a good purpose, because this is not a dead end for you. It’s that very STARTING POINT on BIG CHANGES for you, and for your success and happiness with men. Once you “lift the veil” on this secret knowledge, you can actually have more power in your relationships than you ever thought possible. Before we can go into any kind of “courtship” process with a man who is right for you, we have to look at YOU. This is what mindOS™ does, like no other body of material on the planet. But not before taking a look at YOU first. And how do I know this? Because I AM a guy. And a pretty good catch too. I've been in all the scenarios we just looked at above... from the OTHER side. What’s far more important than me simply being a guy who has had a rich dating life with scores of intelligent, beautiful, sophisticated, accomplished, kind, caring, confident women is this… I could only reach a point of a beautiful, satisfying relationships with ONE woman, by growing the kind of character that makes that possible…and attracting a woman of the same level of character. What’s more, I could not possibly have learned how to competently ADVISE women on how to get what THEY are looking for, without REAL , CLINICAL TRAINING in psychiatry and psychology, then developing a NEW system from the real theories, systems, and research of my professional field to be assured that it is VALID. In other words, what I teach you cannot possibly be good enough or even useful if it is based only on “my experience as a great guy,” or former “player,” or least of all, as merely a “marketer” of products and services. There are plenty of those, and I am sure you have seen more than a handful of them online, in magazines, on tv, and other media. Having had a rich dating or relationship life makes a guy an experienced guy at, well… his OWN DATING AND RELATIONSHIP LIFE . It doesn’t make him a competent teacher of others. And it certainly doesn’t put him in a place to know what you PERSONALLY need So that’s where I step in…where all the other non-professional marketers out there END. I’ve treated over ten thousand women in a clinical practice setting. There is no problem that a woman has ever had in her life, career, health, dating or relationships that I have not seen or joined with her side by side to solve. When all the glitzy advertisements and “deals” and promises wither days after you put down the books of self-help or dating “gurus,” fly home from their seminars, and shut off your computer… and you still don’t have the kind of PERMANENT inner peace, solid skills with men, and durable personal growth that builds a happy successful life… …that’s where we begin. There is no substitute for real clinical experience in an academic training program, and the technological innovations for you that grow out of that experience. Not out of simply “dating a lot of women,” or “having a lot of female friends I wanted to help out.” I literally took each and every useful principle of mind science, put them together with the easy, everyday language and inspiration of the self-help literature, and simplified it down to the most powerful system of personal growth available today. It’s called mindOS™, and it starts you off on your path to success with men, your relationships, friendships and your career, by looking first at YOU. Next, you will have to know what the RIGHT TYPE OF MAN is for you, and KWML™ teaches you THAT. We will learn together than only the exact OPPOSITE style of personality in a man is the one who most “completes you.” Finally, having worked on yourself, and having determined the exact right man for you, you are ready to use the skills of COURTSHIP to lead him to a life together, in the Seventh Sense™ set of products. Your character is your destiny. Opposites attract. Where is my soulmate? Courtship is the answer. MindOS™, KWML™, and the Seventh Sense Seminar™ Here's what I discovered: The 3 Deadly Errors Women Make That End Relationships Permanently, and Prevent the RIGHT Man From Ever Finding You... Through my research and personal experience, I've found that these 3 errors are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are: » Error #1: Mistaking Sexual Passion for Love, or Love for Commitment Did you know that there are only 3 ways you can get a man on fire for you sexually, and if all three of these actions are not taken, that he is very likely to eventually lose interest for you? It’s true, for every woman ever born, and every woman who ever seeks to be desired in the future. No exceptions. Really. Every time. Did you further know that there is only ONE thing you can do that absolutely guarantees that a man will even think twice about pursuing a relationship with you? Just ONE . An action that, if you fail to take it, practically GUARANTEES divorce or breakup some day. It is something that MUST be done at the very beginning of the relationship. Sadly, even intelligent, experienced women often "accidentally" make this mistake, misinterpreting man language and guaranteeing that the great guy they have on their hands won’t be around for long. The Seventh Sense Seminar for women SOLVES this. As you read through these errors men pick up on as “not for me,” ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly errors:
The next 2 are far deadlier, but less obvious... and it's important that you learn what they are and how to avoid making them. It’s all in the Seventh Sense Seminar for women. » Error #2: Trading Up” Instead of “Building Up” (Your Own Character)Many women make the mistake of thinking that men will ALWAYS respond to being beautiful and sexy. They DO. But only ONE part of their brain does. The part that wants to pursue you ONLY for SEX. Many women use sex to appeal to a man to do what she wants him to. And sometimes she finds that she can use this to “trade up” in the quality of men she has in her life, jumping from one man to another up the social ladder. Eventually though, she is shocked and in for a fall – just like some of the models on Sex and the City who did not manage to keep Mr. Big in their lives. The successful, sexy man of character does not respond to just beauty and sexiness alone. He needs a woman of CHARACTER in his life. And character is completely laid out for you in the mindOS™ series of trainings. When women use their sex appeal as the ONLY method of cultivating relationships with men, they leave themselves interchangeable with every other beautiful woman out there. There is nothing to distinguish them, which is why so many men are known for dating a wide variety of women and never settling down with just ONE . HIS character needs work too. Men respond to far more than just beauty and sexiness... and a woman who knows how to build up her own CHARACTER instead of just higher flirting skills will be the woman who captures a man's heart for life... and gets to “trade up” her own old level of career and personal success for HERSELF, rather than looking to be on a man’s arm to do that FOR her. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that... » Error #3: Not Knowing How To Screen Men for the RIGHT TYPE to DateMany women have a well developed INTUITION. They are very keen with reading their own FEELINGS and sensing what feels right from what does not in a man. While your intuition is a wonderful gift, and the type of thing many have called “having a sixth sense,” sometimes it can lead you astray, and into months or years of commitment to a man who never really was anything like what would fit your life for all time. I want you to develop more than just your intuition. I want you to have more than a sixth sense. Let it be a Seventh Sense™ - the kind that takes intuition, but also tells you WHY you are having the intuition. When I teach women to grow the kind of character they need to attract a man of high character too (and judge him for GOOD character), I recommend the mindOS™ courses. When I teach women to have more of a Seventh Sense™ in their dating and relationships to just ONE man they have selected, I refer them to my flagship product, the Seventh Sense Seminar™. But to reach this master level, they need a foundation in being able to tell the right general TYPE of man to even invest in. It is very evident in the research that not every man fits like lock and key with every woman. We only get along for life – a kind of best friendship WITHIN our romance – with a specific PERSONALITY TYPE in the other person. This is where KWML™ is important. You can learn to know YEARS ahead of time what would be highly likely to happen with a man, based purely on his PERSONALITY STYLE. It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST ... so you don't waste any of your time or energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how... in the KWML™ courses. Here's How To Locate, Meet, and Attract The Man Who’s Got Passion, Love, and Commitment for You, Now and for Life... Wouldn't it be nice to avoid wasting your TIME, ENERGY, MONEY, and YOUTH on men you date or even start relationships with, whom are almost guaranteed to not work out with you? Most women have to go through the “school of hard knocks” or have to “play the field” for years to even find a handful of men worth considering for deeper levels of commitment... And many of them will not learn my systems at practically show you how to drop right into the arms of the man you really want! Would you like to learn how to effortlessly win a man simply by BEING you? That is not only possible, but irrefutable, expectable, and just waiting for you, when you use mindOS™ to build your character, KWML™ to identify the man, and the Seventh Sense™ to take him through the natural COURTSHIP process that has been encoded in humans since the beginning of time. Would you like to have an almost "unfair" secret, one which nearly all other women are in the dark about when it comes to meeting and attracting the man you want... including those women who might be said to have perfect bodies, supermodel faces or simply be younger than you? Do you get tired of dealing with men who never really commit? Do you want to break out of the destructive cycle of meeting men, dating them, getting into relationships, quitting things that you like to do... only to end up breaking up with the guy and feeling like you wasted your love and your life away on him? Do you ever feel like you just can't find the right man for you... and if you did... that he might not be attracted to YOU? Would you like to know how to change this? Or is there a man in your life right now with whom you would like to take things “to the next level" of intimacy and commitment, but you're not sure exactly how to do it in a way that you know will work... or even if he is interested in YOU the same way? Or are you in a relationship right now that seems to have lost its sexual “spark"... or feels “loveless,” or makes you think “where is this going?” If you answered, "YES" to any of these questions, I have some exciting news for you... I've put together an actual CURRICULUM for you, of women’s personal growth, dating, and relationship skills, strategy and deep understanding. Your "Secret" to Happiness With Men and in Life I wrote three books for you. The first, called “MindOS,” helps you change yourself in order to change your LIFE . The second is called “KWML” – and it guides you right to the PERFECT people to have best friendships with, ultimately one of whom will be the ONE man for you. The third, I published with PenguinBooks in 2007. It is called The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love, and is the starter book for understanding the Seventh Sense Seminar™ materials on www.womenshappiness.com I believe that if you learn how to understand "male psychology" and you learn how to manage your own personal growth, there is nothing in your way to finding a lifetime soulmate in a man, and one who fits PERFECTLY into your life’s purpose. In my books, I'm going to take you by the hand, and show you step-by-step how to be the kind of woman that the ONE guy for you wants, locate that great guy, and then how to guide him through the natural biological process that has been in all of us for all time past, called COURTSHIP. I've decided to publish the first two of my books only online in "electronic" format, so you can download them right now , and be reading them within just a few minutes... Now then…I am not a shrewd, marketing guy who knows how to razzle-dazzle you with big promises and television ads, and a big-deal advertising budget. But if you're looking for the only real science, from a real scientist, who is a REAL guy with a real name, one who actually PERSONALLY writes you back on each email you send me... I’m your guy. We are going to learn the ways to make a man passionate for you, get what you want out of your dating and relationships - and at the same time - avoid any of the errors and misunderstandings that WILL cost you a lifetime of lost loves. These three books could be the most important books you'll ever read. Men Won’t And CAN’T Tell You How To Attract Them For Life... But I WILL! Mystery romance novels are the number one selling type of book sold every year, and women are the largest buyers of books. There is a reason. You need a mysterious man in your life – one that you can’t quite pin down or easily capture the attention of. You can wonder and complain about how confusing that “one special guy” is to all your friends, all night, but when it comes right down to it, you NEED him to not be weak, overly dependent, or the type who always wears his heart on his sleeve. The same is true for men. They MUST have certain things from you if they are going to be fully engaged, to actually listen to you, and to surrender the freedom of the single life if they are going to truly commit to you. It’s not a one way street. I am going to show you the EXACT things that not only get a man’s interest for the moment, but fully have him committed to you for life. These secrets are the very things that he CAN’T and WON ’T tell you, for the very reason that doing so KILLS HIS ATTRACTION for you. It is the very same thing as the withering of passion that you feel when a guy is too needy or too revealing. Still, there must be couples you have known that after many years together are fully, passionately in love. These people may be considered to have “good luck,” but underneath that, they accidentally found the precise psychological steps of courtship that made it happen. Just because it looks like luck on the surface doesn’t mean that there were not very real scientific principles working underneath it all. He is strong, and reliable, and respectful of her. She admires him, always has and always will. He took her in his arms and led her to adventures, passionate, lustful heights, and they flourished together, raised children, and had far fewer troubles than bliss. You want this, but sometimes have wondered if it’s all a fairy-tale. Sometimes you just think that the rarity of real and passionate love is for a handful of select, the lucky few. Does it ever happen in real life? The answer is YES. Great men find the ONE woman of their dreams – the love of a lifetime. It happens every day, all over the world. It just haven’t happened to YOU…at least not yet. You haven’t learned the steps of courtship in the Seventh Sense Seminar for women. Secretly ALL MEN want to find just ONE woman to commit to. The one they will forgo ALL other women, ake sacrifices for and compromises with – just because they know that they know that they know it is WORTH the trade-off of their total freedom in being single. Do you know that there is only ONE thing that a woman can provide that absolutely GUARANTEES a man that he has found THAT woman? There IS. And I am going to show you what it is in our work together. This ONE PHRASE is what a man needs, and without it, he absolutely senses that you are NOT the one for him, for life. It doesn’t cost you ANYTHING, it is weightless, colorless, and takes no money or energy to give him as a gift. And this phrase is NOT, “I love you.” What is the phrase? How does a woman give a man that feeling that lets him know that she's "the one"? Well... as you can imagine... most guys don't really think about it. They just KNOW it when they feel it. And even if they did chat with each other about what can lock us into loyal commitment to you for life... just as it’s annoying and deflating to have to tell a man how to turn you on, a man CAN’T tell you how to make him fall in love with you. It’s not because he’s arrogant, or difficult, or “all that .” It’s that the act of doing so KILLS THE ATTRACTION, now, and for life. Like you, he just wants it to HAPPEN. If in your most natural, honest state, you just VOLUNTEER what he needs to hear, if you just intuitively KNOW what this phrase is, then and ONLY THEN, can he truly trust and be certain, that you are the real and only ONE . So even though your man will never tell you or even hint at how you can completely capture his heart, you can bet he is secretly hoping you will do all the right things, including saying “The Phrase.” And that's where I come in. When I began my three books for you over a decade ago, I made it my solitary purpose to find what REALLY works to bring men and women together for life... and discover exactly how a woman could make a lifetime of love happen in a completely natural and genuine way. Not a how-to, cookbooky “system” built from “all the women I have known,” or a rush job put together as a glitzy marketer with only profit on the mind. I have been through the academic training in EVERY field of psychology, AND been to EVERY self-help training out there. I took the best of the best principles, eliminated what is NOT true to science or reliable, the mere testimonials and misleading information that makes for great advertising, but utterly lacks real and practical value in your life. I put it all together in the psychology of the mindOS system. Then I didn’t set out to make money with it. I simply wanted to make psychology as easy for people as I could. To understand it myself, and be able to explain it more thoroughly than ANYTHING else I had ever read... I learned some very interesting things as I began giving these secrets away to patients I treated over the years. Many people ask me how difficult it must be to hear people’s painful stories day in and day out – their trouble, and dramas, and sadness and fears. Well the truth is that even while some professionals have strong enough professional boundaries to go home at the end of the day and know that other people’s problems belong only to them, I knew something more with this mindOS system… I couldn’t refute that with it, there really is a solution to EVERY problem . In the past, it just had to be accepted that some problems just have no solution. Sometimes you just have to accept that life is not perfect, and people can only do their best. While the latter is quite true, a little investigation of the mindOS system and the KWML method will reveal to you something pretty profound: That if you actually stop to think and really UNDERSTAND what is happening in your social life, only then can you begin to have power over it. Since the subject of love and soulmates has always been surrounded by such confusion and mystery and drama, it is not surprising that until the last decade most researchers didn’t even bother to study the subject. Lord Collinsworth once said, “Love is a fear, a fire, a Heaven, a Hell, where pleasure, pain, and sad repentance dwell.” It has nothing to do with LOGIC, rationality, “what makes sense,” or even “common sense.” That is, until I pieced together all I had built of the various theories of psychology and self-help into mindOS – and discovered the last puzzle-piece in an area of science called Evolutionary Psychology. It was a science that actually makes logical sense of the illogical, irrational, and “animal” behavior that has always operated in humans and always will. I then connected my landmark work on character and personal growth – mindOS – with the original method of how men’s and women’s PERSONALITY STYLES bond the best – KWML – to create a system that picks apart and solves EVERYTHING that happens between a man and woman in a lifelong love – the Seventh Sense Seminar. Not surprisingly, I started to notice some common things... So very many couples who come in to couple’s counseling have such deeply rooted problems that it almost always appears they can only go so far to work things out. Sooner or later, they find that they can either use the counseling to break up in an organized way, or else one or the other has to “sell out,” and betray one or more core needs that are central to feeling good about their lives. I soon realized that it wasn’t that either one of them was a bad person, or needs to get their act together NOW. It was that certain things were not decided upon or worked out LONG AGO, at the very BEGINNING of the relationships. Looking around at the social habits we all have today, and the utter lack of cultural conventions for how men and women can best get together for life, it was clear that what is missing today is a deep understanding of COURTSHIP. This is a set of principles, rules, strategies and tactics that have been working in us since the beginning of time, to get men and women together. And we are simply not doing them today because no one knows WHAT the steps are. At least not until NOW. Every woman has a natural, intuitive way of instantly "sizing a guy up"... but because love and attraction are not based in LOGIC, many women I have treated are “going with their gut” for the wrong reasons and in the wrong ways. The women I have treated clinically who were highly successful in finding ONE , LOYAL MAN , tended to just be more accurate with their gut, and had a solid REASON why their “gut” also made logical sense to them. …so they NEVER wasted time on a guy who wasn't up to their standards, or who would likely prove himself unloyal, unappealing, unaccomplished, a poor father, husband and friend LATER, down the line. Many women get a “quick read” on men in the early days, weeks or months of dating, and never go back to review it. What they don’t know is that just like we grow from children to adults, and just as animal evolve from primitive to sophisticated, the same thing happens in relationships. Over time, they reveal their true nature and potential. The women who are too quick t go with their “gut” without adding their head to the very early moments of dating were missing out on something…and returning to me YEARS or even DECADES later in a heartache that could have been stopped in the first hour of knowing a man. I want you to first, know YOURSELF thoroughly. That is what the mindOS system is for. Then I want you to choose well in the first hour of knowing a man. Do a deep evaluation of his potential UP FRONT, rather than simply getting swept away in passion. You’ll end up with passion for life instead of for a night. That ability is contained in the KWML method of personality. And finally, I want you to be able to empower your life with the secret steps, strategies and tactics of COURTSHIP. You will be able to solve any and EVERY problem that could arise in dating and relating to a man for life, with the principles of the Seventh Sense Seminar for women. What may surprise you to discover is that men do have a deep understanding of commitment and marriage and what they mean. On a “gut level” men sense marriage as a LEGAL contract, not a PSYCHOLOGICAL STATE. We confuse the two when we think only of the physical act of getting married rather than the invisible process of very real commitment. What is really going on when a guy doesn’t or won’t marry you is that on some level he is picking up on a lack of true PSYCHOLOGICAL commitment on YOUR part, even if you THINK you are devoted to him, and say, “I love you” a lot. It all comes down to that ONE , GUARANTEED PHRASE that a man MUST hear if he is to know for a fact you’re for real, for life. Why Guys Fall For Some Women r> And Not Others... My work wouldn't be complete without the inside "dirt" from us as MEN. I found the best of the best of men who “had it all” – the career, ONE devoted woman whom he would never even think of betraying for another woman, the kids, the bliss, the dream we all want in a soulmate. One of these men I actually went so far with as to make a very gritty, street-smart program with for you, called On Men, Women, and Life: Wisdom of the Professional Boxer. The man is Carl Davis, and he is a potential world Heavyweight Champion in Boxing – a manly man, but you might be surprised at him. Carl was also a single father of a darling daughter for a number of years before finding his one true love, whom he married just this past year. He faces death nearly every day, and yet returns home to a blissful love and devotion to a daughter and wife. He has seen it all in the seedy underbelly of Chicago’s Bar and Club scene, been a bouncer, a bodyguard to A-list celebrities, and a businessman as well as sports figure. He joins me in explaining to you the gritty, street-smart skinny on what it REALLY is that attracts a man of high quality and masculinity to a real woman. Together, we also explain the three things women do to let us know they are the "one and only". Carl has dated MANY women, some whose names you likely KNOW. But in the end, there was one and only one for him. And most importantly... I got him to reveal the things that one special woman had done to make those love feelings last and last and last... perhaps the biggest challenge us men face in finding a woman to give our hearts to. I've dated many beautiful, successful women myself, and have had my own life as enriched in so doing as I provided back. Still, there have only been a handful of women I have ever known who even remotely had what it takes to keep me interested for the long term. I have finally, finally found what the difference is between the two – the ones with whom a guy can share a lot of growth and good times with, versus the type who are surely a fit for life. So of course when I put my material together for you in the past decade, it not only brings in all the science that works. It also is something that as a young, single man, I have come face to face with in my personal life. I have LIVED my own material too. I lay it all out for you here... and I hold nothing back. The bottom line is this: Some women know secrets that other women do not, and belong to a select, exclusive group who find love for a lifetime. Some women discover these through trial and error, and may take decades to do so. Some are just lucky enough to chance upon the right words, and right actions with men, at the right time while they are still very young. Well, I know them now – full on, in complete detail, the solutions to EVERY problem with a man, and the direct pathway to the ONE . When you say my ONE PHRASE to him at the right moment, he’ll KNOW you’re IT. I've compiled these secrets in three books for you: MindOS: the operating system of the human mind – a complete guide to recognizing character in yourself and in men. KWML: How to Find Your One True Soulmate – a complete guide to screening, selecting, and predicting men’s behavior. The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love (Penguin, 2007) – the starter guide to the Seventh Sense Seminar for women, both LIVE in Chicago, and on CD and DVD . …and I'm really looking forward to sharing them with you. All three books (the first two, only as ebooks, available for you to download right NOW on your computer) come with more advanced instruction as CDs or DVDs, with me literally showing you what to do. These are the only full sources of material on men, love, dating and relationships of their kind... and you won't find these secrets anywhere else. Really. I’m the only board certified psychiatrist on the web with this kind of material, tens of thousands of real clinical patient cases and experience, and oh yes, my REAL name is right on the site, and I answer your questions with my REAL email address with my own two hands to the keyboard. This material I wish a woman that I was interested in would have... and read, listen to, or view often. Inside are the secrets every man WISHES a woman would know... and they will bring strength, affection, attention, and love to all who learn them. Here Are Some Of The Secrets You'll Learn Inside My MindOS™, KWML™, and Seventh Sense Systems™
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