Testimonials

"The Secret Psychology of How We Fall in Love" is based on a scientific approach that is far from clinical. The intriguing case studies of how couples interact with each other keeps your full attention as Dr. Paul Dobransky analyzes these stories and presents a pathway to true love.

Diagrams throughout make the psychology lessons easy to understand and the idea of allowing natural stages of courtship to unfold makes complete sense. This book is mainly for women who want to secure a long-term relationship and are willing to thoughtfully analyze each step in the process.

What are the character traits that make men irresistible?
What are the three main stages to all romantic relationships?
How can you avoid breakups or divorce?
What makes men and women successful at relationships?

To bring about a full understanding of how we fall in love, Dr. Paul Dobransky explains how our brains function. This is truly brilliant because it gives a realistic viewpoint to an otherwise unexplainable phenomena. Falling in love is normally so mysterious and veiled and the information presented here explores the reptilian (brain stem), mammalian (midbrain) and higher brain (cortex) in detail.

During each stage of courtship a different part of the brain takes center stage. By understanding how the brain works while you are hopelessly falling in love gives you insight into what is actually occurring. This gives a woman much more control over her emotions and allows her to sidestep many of the dangers involved with only relying on the reptilian brain or physical attraction stages. There are detailed lists of what to look for if you suspect you may be with Mr. Wrong.

Dr. Paul Dobransky successfully synthesizes various theories of psychology into a very understandable model that is practical and helpful. He explores nine steps of courtship that will lead to a satisfying romantic relationship with long-term potential. Whether you are looking for Mr. Right or enjoy analyzing your current relationship I think you will find many answers to questions about dating and marriage.

Rebecca Johnson
~The Rebecca Review

Love is supposed to happen easily and naturally, right? For those of us that have found it to be otherwise, Dr. Dobransky presents a refresing perspective. His degreed credentials and 20 year study of human relationships have allowed him to create an easy but powerful "system" for understanding how to choose, date, and have a long term relationship with the right person for you. The beauty of this book is it allows you to take the material, think for yourself and write your own story about finding the love right for you. Also, the diagrams provide maps for solutions for many problems in love and life. The diagram solutions are invaluable because they are something that is actually useful when you are angry, upset, giddy, bored, or head over heels in love. Stoic words in a book just don't work when emotion is involved. I have used this material, and am newly married to the person that is right for me, and I am blissfully happy. I truly believe this would have not have been possible without this book.
Best Book on Creating and Sustaining Harmonious Relationships, July 11, 2007

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R. Peterson