Dear Dr Paul,

Your information has been so very helpful to me over the past year. I went through a rather traumatic breakup with a man whom I loved quite deeply, and he me -- we were both very highly compatible.

After searching for months and months for answers of what went wrong - I came across your Mind/OS . It was so eye-opening to see your description about emotional boundries and how powerful they are in the dynamics of a relationship. And how the violation of those boundries is really the root cause of many psychosis in our world. And how now I can see with his very weak boundries probably created due to some childhood trauma, can cause some pretty serious emotional damage. I discovered through this relationship and reading your Mind/OS that I too have some holes in my boundries that I (unknownly at the time), allowed to be violated. Let me tell you, that's hard to 'fess' up to and a lot of hard work I've been doing to make those holes into doors.

This man was definitely a King in temperament, and I am such a classic Magician you could have inserted my picture next to your description. I see that now after reading your KWML. No wonder we were so strongly attracted to each other.

So what am I trying to tell you? IT ALL MAKES SENSE NOW. I was highly attracted to my soulmate (there was sssooo much good about the man) due to the KWML, as he was too me. He was a king at his core, who had a magician at his side. Imagine how I thrived off the initial attention, admiration, feeding my need to be the center of celebration? Imagine how I met his needs as a magician with his king qualities - he would tell me repeatedly how proud he was of me and how lucky he was! And I LOVED 'performing' for him. He LOVED being my leader.

I can see through your writings and other's knowledge what my experience was. I have great awareness of my boundries and making doors instead of holes/walls. It is really amazing how all this makes sense and begins to put all the pieces of the puzzle together. Thank you for coming into my life over the internet and providing some understanding, and more so, relief.

I look forward to finding a relationship with my King who is emotionally mature and stable!
Signed,
Kara

Dr. Paul,

Thank you so much for the wisdom you share with us in your writing. I was lucky enough to have a session with you. The more I read your work, the more I realized how much I would have benefited from further contact with you. But the handout you gave me on boundaries led me to purchase “The Tortoise and Hare Quit the Rat Race” (the last copy available on Amazon, at that time).
I did an in-depth study of this book, then worked through “Mind OS”.

Now I am getting ready to study “The King, Warrior, Magician, and Lover in the Opposite Sex”. I anticipated that “Mind OS” would just be a reprint of “…Rat Race”, but I was pleasantly surprised. The improvements were well worth a second in-depth study.

I am currently taking a class that challenges me to learn to love and accept myself as the first step on the road to mastery. One of our assignments is to contact a person we think has achieved a degree of mastery in some area. Our course postulates that these are people who love themselves in a powerful way. You are at the top of my list. I send you positive energy and prayers for your continued success.

A former client and a fan,
Diane

That was exactly what I needed to hear doctor paul- thank you. I don't think I'm going to make it to the webinar tonight but I will download imediatly once it is available- hopefully it is available tonight.

Martha

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